Dear U,

This is a very stream of consciousness letter to you..

I’m about a week away from my birthday, which is when I want to launch Pervette (again). I don’t feel ready. There’s a vital piece missing. It’s the piece on how to connect with you and inspire you to see Pervette as a safe space for you to get intimate in as well. How do I open you up? So you can share with me in the way that I am with you?

Jesus Christ. That’s a huge missing piece.

I’ve spent the past several years trying to get comfortable in this space, writing and sharing my life through my journaling to you. So I’m finally at a place where this feels easy and easeful to me. But what about you?

I don’t really want you to stay at the level of a voyeur, consuming me without connecting or co-creating with me. I want you to be a part of this intimate process, of us getting to know each other.  Or else it’s not really intimacy. 



I know that this has everything to do with how I invite you in.

So I just need to figure out how to do that.


Let me think about this process. How can it mirror intimacy in real life?


So say when I meet you, how do I get intimate with you?


We can ask each other questions?

And answer them as honestly as we can..



I think I just answered my own question.

And the answer is: Ask Questions


Well, that was easy.

I guess this is why I write, to know what I think.

Thanks for reading my writing/thinking..





P.S. If you have any ideas on how to get intimate with me in Pervette, feel free to drop me a line here or in the comments below, I’m all ears..