Dominatrix

(n.) a woman who knows her power, plays with dreams, listens closely, and blurs the boundary between fantasy and reality

Before I started working as a pro domme (for the uninitiated, that’s short for professional dominatrix) in 2005, I had a very vague idea of what a dominatrix was other than the canonical image I had of her. She was a women with a whip. She wore leather and latex. And men would happily submit to her. I had no idea why she existed and why men would see (let alone pay) her to let her walk all over them.

Then I dived in and acted as if I was this women in power.

And then..