How do you create an intimate experience through a website?

How deeply can one get to know someone, virtually? There’s something about most websites and the way they’re created, squarespace, wordpress, they’re all ready-made templates for you to fill in. The way they’re laid out is made to be organized and easy to navigate, which inevitably makes it feel clean (or sterile), boxed in, and slightly depersonalized. I think intimacy is the opposite of organized. It’s messy and complex. You can’t easily contain or organize it. That might be why I keep imagining this new structure where it forces the visitor to go on a ride and they can’t predict where the next page will take them. The structure of the site is modeling intimacy itself. And by being intentional about what I choose to share (in writing, video, audio, etc) at different levels of the rabbithole (i.e., how deep you do you have to go before I reveal my fantasies, my shame, my fears, my session videos, my sex videos..?) I’m trying to map out the architecture of intimacy. The first vision I had of Pervette (2.0) was of a blank black canvas with pink letters being typed out. There’s something about the dark background that feels cozy, womb or dream-like. The letters being typed out against a dark screen reminds me of the last snippet of each episode of Doogie Howser MD, where he writes what he learns in his personal journal on his computer. I want the visitor to feel as though they’re reading my thoughts and going deep inside my head and soul.

I'm ready to play.I'm ready to go deeper.