When I was little I daydreamed a lot.

I discovered masturbation when I was three.

I became a Mormon when I was 10.

I was that overachieving valedictorian in high school.

When I turned 18 I had sex for the first time.

At UCLA, I wanted to be an art major but I chose psychology instead.

I read The Story of O.

I decided to go to grad school at UC Berkeley

in 2005, I got an interview at the Gates and became a Dominatrix.

Four years later, I left the Gates and bought a dungeon.

I started mentoring women to become pro Dommes.

In 2010, I got my PhD in Education on misconceptions and conceptual change.

I decided to pursue my domme career over academia.

I said yes to a trip to Bali with my client.

I did acid for the first time.

I fell in love with my soulmate.

I was outed by my sister to my mom. They wanted me to quit being a Domme

I got on Twitter and Instagram.

I started a community blog called Pervette

I smoked 5meodmt and experienced ego death

I threw a birthday party

I declared email bankruptcy.

I had a vision for Pervette 2.0

I learned how to meditate

I sat with iboga and aya

I contemplated the theory behind the practice of bdsm.

I got off social media.

I started publishing my journal entries.

I started teaching about Power to women.

I invited my hero to my birthday party.

I had a dream the weekend before my dad passed away..

I expanded my offerings

I developed a spiritual practice.

I bought my dream home.

I came out to my mom about my poly life

I’m creating the rabbithole of Pervette and launching it

I create a Domme Boot Camp called Power Play..

I launch my first virtual Domme course called MistressClass.

You found out about me from The NY Times and wrote to me saying you “want to switch things up.”

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To reach me, you decided to go deeper1you found my work in progress subscription page through a journal entry and became the first player on Pervette. You got my attention..

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We decided to do a trade, you film me, and I help you explore yourself.

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You were obsessed with The Story of O as well. You asked to be my o.

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You had an idea to ghostwrite my memoir of my time at the Gates.