Dear You,

Thank you for being so curious and clicking on the notebook with my handwritten words:

What is Intimacy?

I felt like I needed to write that out1literally, as you can see as it’s been on my mind for a while now.


Because this is actually the whole point of Pervette: To understand and experience Intimacy.2If I were to expand this even further, I think this is the point of life: To experience intimacy.

And that’s why I’m building this intimate website.

I want to talk about Intimacy and get into it as deeply as I can with you.

And I think the only way I can do it is to actually get intimate with you.


So that’s my aim:

To get intimate with you

And to make love and art with you3 As in, I want to make art out of love. Oh and yes if your mind went there, I am also talking about sex. If you go deeper, you’ll see what I mean..


But I can’t do this alone. I need you to say yes to getting intimate with me as well. Otherwise it wouldn’t really be intimacy, but just a one-sided4and pretty masturbatory monologue of me trying to open myself up to you and and share what I know conceptually about intimacy.

And that’s the thing. I don’t want to talk about intimacy on just a philosophical or theoretical level. I want to experience it in all its depths and dimensions with you.

You might be wondering, how is this kind of intimacy possible through a website? Well that’s why I spent the past few years imagining and creating an evolving website with no defined rules, clear lines or endpoint. Because I’m not sure myself what this will look like or how it’ll unfold, and that’s the point. Intimacy is always evolving. Every moment is a choose your own erotic adventure. 

So for us to get intimate, we are choosing to let go of what we know5and ultimately what we can control so that we can step into the unknown and carve this path together.  We are choosing to open ourselves up and share what wants to come out and be seen, heard, held, and understood.  We are choosing to co-create Intimacy.6Hence, we are choosing to make love Because there is no other way.


So here we are

in this multi-leveled safe playspace

that I created for us

So that we can connect

at this new beginning

with nothing to expect

but blank pages ahead

and just one looming question guiding us:

What is Intimacy?



If you want to go on this journey with me to answer this question, then say yes, click on and let’s get intimate..



Back to where you were