Paying It Forward

One of the best decisions I ever made in my life was becoming a dominatrix.

I feel incredibly lucky that somehow things were aligned in such a way that this door was opened to me.

In my 14 years as a professional dominatrix, friends and friends of friends would come to me curious and wanting to know how did I do it? How did it all begin? And where can they begin?

In the same way I love being the Domme to newbie subs,

I loved being the Domme Mom to baby Dommes.

I love showing the curious this whole other world that’s subversive and filled with magic.

 

And so I could never turn a curious girl away, I somehow felt like it was my duty to show them the way.

So I let any woman who wanted to learn about being a Domme come into my dungeon.

And I let her shadow me.

And if she was serious, I would tell her every step that she needed to take to go professional.

And many did follow through and went on to became professional Dommes.

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I can tell they enjoyed having and calling me their Domme Mom

As they called me up from time to time for guidance and advice

Especially when they’re about to step into their first session.

And I enjoyed giving them moral support and advice.

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What I really enjoyed is seeing these initially timid women stepping into my dungeon quickly evolve into a fearless woman in power as they saw themselves in this whole new light.

They saw how quickly they can state change into whomever they wanted to be when the situation calls for it.

They learned how to get what they want

by learning the art of clear communication.

They felt the pleasure of being on top

when power is not something they have to fight for

but is happily given to them

And what’s so satisfying is when they can see

that what they have to offer

through their femininity and sexuality

is so valuable and healing.

 

And how they know this

is because they are given

a tribute

for their emotional labor.

.

I secretly get off on seeing their eyes widen in session, as if to ask

Is this for real?

Can I woman really get what she wants?

Is this really happening?

That a

.

The first session (for a domme or sub) is really a trip.

And I just love being the trusted guide into their unknowing..

.

Over time, I realized that this is my calling.

I’m here as a Domme Mom.

This is my work.

.

The words

Matriarchal Revolution

keeps on echoing inside me

As if this is the future I want to see and be a huge part of.

.

And I think that the way I can help make that a reality is by being a Domme Mom to any curious woman out there.

 

To any woman who wants to find her power

To any woman who’s curious to try something new

To any woman who wants to dig and find the truth

That lives in in our shadows and dreams

To anybody who is curious to see what the world looks like when

A woman is in power..

 

I just want to say

I’m here

To do whatever I can

To show you the way

.

And right the only way I know

is the one I took

So if it helps

I’m going to tell you my story..

.

This is the way I know how

To find power.

.

If I can give you what I know

Maybe it can help you find your power

And maybe this newfound power can inspire you

To spread it

To pay it forward

So that as a community of sisters,

We can keep on growing and going

 

Because I know that when you get to see a woman in her feminine power

You’ll be convinced that this is what the world needs right now.

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Because at her very essence

Her power is Truth and Love.

.

And every time

we choose

to take a step in that path

we are moving closer

to living out

our collective

(sub)conscious

dream

.

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Paying It Forward

One of the best decisions I ever made in my life was becoming a dominatrix.

I feel incredibly lucky that somehow things were aligned in such a way that this door was opened to me.

In my 14 years as a professional dominatrix, friends and friends of friends would come to me curious and wanting to know how did I do it? How it all begin? And where can they begin?

I never turned any curious girl away, I somehow felt like it was my duty to show them the way.

So I let any woman who wanted to learn about being a Domme come into my dungeon.

I let them shadow me.

And I told them every step they needed to take to go professional.

And many of them followed through and became pro dommes.

And they would call me their Domme Mom as they called me for guidance.

 

In the same way I love being the Domme to newbie subs,

I loved being the Domme Mom to baby Dommes.

I love showing the curious this whole other world that’s subversive and filled with magic.

.

I secretly get off on seeing their eyes widen in session, as if to ask

Is this for real? Is this really happening?

.

The first session (for a domme or sub) is really a trip.

And I just love being the trusted guide into their unknowing..

.

Over time, I realized that this is my calling.

I’m here as a Domme Mom.

This is my work.

.

The words

Matriarchal Revolution

keeps on echoing inside me

As if this is the future I want to see and be a huge part of.

.

And I think that the way I can help make that a reality is by being a Domme Mom to any curious woman out there.

 

To any woman who wants to find her power

To any woman who’s curious to try something new

To any woman who wants to dig and find the truth

That lives in in our shadows and dreams

To anybody who is curious to see what the world looks like when

A woman is in charge..

 

I just want to say

I’m here

If you need me

I would be happy to show you the way

I took

.

Because what I know is that I’m here

to pay it forward

This is the way I know how

.

If I can give you everything I got

And it can help you find your power

and if it can inspire you to continue this widening circle of paying it forward

Then we might have a chance of living in that future

of our collective dream