Paying It Forward
One of the best decisions I ever made in my life was becoming a dominatrix.
I feel incredibly lucky that somehow things were aligned in such a way that this door was opened to me.
In my 14 years as a professional dominatrix, friends and friends of friends would come to me curious and wanting to know how did I do it? How did it all begin? And where can they begin?
In the same way I love being the Domme to newbie subs,
I loved being the Domme Mom to baby Dommes.
I love showing the curious this whole other world that’s subversive and filled with magic.
And so I could never turn a curious girl away, I somehow felt like it was my duty to show them the way.
So I let any woman who wanted to learn about being a Domme come into my dungeon.
And I let her shadow me.
And if she was serious, I would tell her every step that she needed to take to go professional.
And many did follow through and went on to became professional Dommes.
.
I can tell they enjoyed having and calling me their Domme Mom
As they called me up from time to time for guidance and advice
Especially when they’re about to step into their first session.
And I enjoyed giving them moral support and advice.
.
What I really enjoyed is seeing these initially timid women stepping into my dungeon quickly evolve into a fearless woman in power as they saw themselves in this whole new light.
They saw how quickly they can state change into whomever they wanted to be when the situation calls for it.
They learned how to get what they want
by learning the art of clear communication.
They felt the pleasure of being on top
when power is not something they have to fight for
but is happily given to them
And what’s so satisfying is when they can see
that what they have to offer
through their femininity and sexuality
is so valuable and healing.
And how they know this
is because they are given
a tribute
for their emotional labor.
.
I secretly get off on seeing their eyes widen in session, as if to ask
Is this for real?
Can I woman really get what she wants?
Is this really happening?
That a
.
The first session (for a domme or sub) is really a trip.
And I just love being the trusted guide into their unknowing..
.
Over time, I realized that this is my calling.
I’m here as a Domme Mom.
This is my work.
.
The words
Matriarchal Revolution
keeps on echoing inside me
As if this is the future I want to see and be a huge part of.
.
And I think that the way I can help make that a reality is by being a Domme Mom to any curious woman out there.
To any woman who wants to find her power
To any woman who’s curious to try something new
To any woman who wants to dig and find the truth
That lives in in our shadows and dreams
To anybody who is curious to see what the world looks like when
A woman is in power..
I just want to say
I’m here
To do whatever I can
To show you the way
.
And right the only way I know
is the one I took
So if it helps
I’m going to tell you my story..
.
This is the way I know how
To find power.
.
If I can give you what I know
Maybe it can help you find your power
And maybe this newfound power can inspire you
To spread it
To pay it forward
So that as a community of sisters,
We can keep on growing and going
Because I know that when you get to see a woman in her feminine power
You’ll be convinced that this is what the world needs right now.
.
Because at her very essence
Her power is Truth and Love.
.
And every time
we choose
to take a step in that path
we are moving closer
to living out
our collective
(sub)conscious
dream
.
.
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Paying It Forward
One of the best decisions I ever made in my life was becoming a dominatrix.
I feel incredibly lucky that somehow things were aligned in such a way that this door was opened to me.
In my 14 years as a professional dominatrix, friends and friends of friends would come to me curious and wanting to know how did I do it? How it all begin? And where can they begin?
I never turned any curious girl away, I somehow felt like it was my duty to show them the way.
So I let any woman who wanted to learn about being a Domme come into my dungeon.
I let them shadow me.
And I told them every step they needed to take to go professional.
And many of them followed through and became pro dommes.
And they would call me their Domme Mom as they called me for guidance.
In the same way I love being the Domme to newbie subs,
I loved being the Domme Mom to baby Dommes.
I love showing the curious this whole other world that’s subversive and filled with magic.
.
I secretly get off on seeing their eyes widen in session, as if to ask
Is this for real? Is this really happening?
.
The first session (for a domme or sub) is really a trip.
And I just love being the trusted guide into their unknowing..
.
Over time, I realized that this is my calling.
I’m here as a Domme Mom.
This is my work.
.
The words
Matriarchal Revolution
keeps on echoing inside me
As if this is the future I want to see and be a huge part of.
.
And I think that the way I can help make that a reality is by being a Domme Mom to any curious woman out there.
To any woman who wants to find her power
To any woman who’s curious to try something new
To any woman who wants to dig and find the truth
That lives in in our shadows and dreams
To anybody who is curious to see what the world looks like when
A woman is in charge..
I just want to say
I’m here
If you need me
I would be happy to show you the way
I took
.
Because what I know is that I’m here
to pay it forward
This is the way I know how
.
If I can give you everything I got
And it can help you find your power
and if it can inspire you to continue this widening circle of paying it forward
Then we might have a chance of living in that future
of our collective dream